I am one of those people who constantly thinks about and looks at the things that make my life better, and I feel like I have a lot of things in my life that are not as good.
I don’t get to take the time to put it all together, but if I were to spend all this time writing about my life, I would have to spend another hour or two writing about how I feel.
I think it’s something to do with how people perceive you. You’re always trying to be better, trying to be better at something, trying to be “better than me.” But if you can’t admit that you need help, then it becomes almost impossible to ask for help.
This is the most recent post on the topic of how people view themselves, and their thoughts and actions. It’s a really interesting observation. So maybe this is a good thing for the reader, to draw some other thoughts off of this post. Of course, it’s not.
The whole me too movement (or anti-me too movement) is a reaction to the people who believe that if you dont do something, you need to be shamed or criticized for it. Its a reaction to how people are so quick to judge others on the basis of what they dont do. Like if you need to be praised for something youve done, then you are instantly on the defensive. If you go off on some tangent, you will instantly be shamed.
Its a reaction to how people are so quick to judge others on the basis of what they dont do. Like if you need to be praised for something youve done, then you are instantly on the defensive. If you go off on some tangent, you will instantly be shamed.
The problem we’ve run into all this time is that people constantly see us as “the good guy” and when we do something they don’t like it’s almost always because we’ve done something we’ve been criticized for, or we have some controversial opinion.
The problem is that many of us are not perfect human beings. And that makes us all the more vulnerable to being shamed or criticized for things weve done. Even if we think we have done something wrong, we probably do. Its like when you go out for a run and you see a car that looks out of place, but you never think about the fact that many cars look out of place just because there are many people that drive them.
It’s no good to have a person who says that you “have done something wrong” and then we can’t help you any more. That’s the problem. If you have done something wrong and you want to change it, then it’s going to be a good thing. The person who has done the wrong thing must have learned from it. So the more you do, the more you have to learn about it.
The only way to change is to change things. We all have a place for life, we make the world better, we make the world better. The problem is that most people don’t realize that when they change things they make the world better. It’s not that they aren’t going to get better, it’s that they are just going to get better. The only path we’re ever going to take is to get better.